BECOMING UNAPOLOGETIC
Hi Sugars, I feel like its being a while I talked to you guys about real life issues, well, today we’re talking about being real and becoming unapologetic.
Leaving in a space of being unapologetic means that you know what your priorities are and the most of them are to make a choice that makes you feel good. Doing what you want and NOT feeling bad about it. It means caring less about the COOL things and caring more about the stuff that counts.
For me, things start to change when I started becoming ME more and more. For some time I always question my path, and always wondering what was next for me. Sometimes I feel sorry for not being that person people wanted me to be and I struggled to fit in.
I wasn’t bold enough to admit some things were hard and weren’t for me. The moment I started living for myself and becoming unapologetic for my choices and my existence, things started changing.I outgrew some friendships and my relationships with people began to change. I become more confident with my life choices and started living to please myself FIRST.
Here are a few things that have been helping me to become unapologetic
I go after what I most desire. “if you don’t go after what you want you will never have it” Nora Roberts
I stopped hanging out with people who don’t bring out that Good feeling within me.
I set clear boundaries and I wound throw down on them when someone blows past it
I kept on going no matter what. I failed, I fell, but most importantly I stood back up and try again and again
I stopped feeling sorry for myself and I only say sorry when I find its really necessary to do so.
Cheers to becoming unapologetic and blogging about it lol.